Internal Family Systems (IFS)

IFS assumes that the mind is composed of various subpersonalities, each with its own unique thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.

Explore and connect with your “Self”

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a therapeutic approach developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz in the 1980s. It is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on understanding and working with the different parts or “subpersonalities” within an individual’s mind. IFS assumes that the mind is composed of various subpersonalities, each with its own unique thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.

The central concept of IFS is that every individual has a core or “Self” that is compassionate, curious, and wise. This Self is believed to be the source of healing and balance within a person’s internal system. In IFS therapy, the therapist helps the individual explore and connect with their Self, facilitating a process of self-discovery, healing, and integration.

According to the IFS model, the mind consists of three main categories of parts:

  • Exiles are the wounded and vulnerable parts of the self that carry painful emotions and memories from past experiences.

  • Managers are protective parts that try to maintain control, avoid pain, and ensure survival.

  • Firefighters are parts that emerge in response to distress and use impulsive or addictive behaviors to distract from or numb emotional pain.

IFS therapy involves establishing a relationship with each part, understanding its role and intention, and facilitating communication and cooperation among the parts. The therapist guides the individual in accessing their Self and becoming a compassionate witness to their internal system. Through this process, individuals can develop a more harmonious relationship with their parts, allowing for healing and integration of their internal conflicts.

IFS is considered suitable for a wide range of individuals and can be applied to various mental health challenges:

  • Trauma-related disorders: IFS has been effective in working with individuals who have experienced trauma, such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), childhood abuse, or neglect. It helps individuals safely explore and heal their traumatic experiences.

  • Anxiety and depression: IFS can be helpful in addressing anxiety disorders, depression, and other mood disorders. By identifying and understanding the underlying parts responsible for anxiety or depression, individuals can work towards resolving these issues.

  • Relationship difficulties: IFS therapy can assist individuals in improving their relationships by exploring and understanding the dynamics between their different parts. It helps individuals develop healthier communication and connection patterns.

  • Self-esteem and self-worth issues: IFS focuses on cultivating a compassionate and accepting relationship with oneself. It can be beneficial for individuals struggling with low self-esteem, self-criticism, or a lack of self-worth.

  • Emotional regulation and self-control: IFS provides individuals with tools and techniques to regulate and manage their emotions effectively. It helps individuals develop a greater sense of self-control and reduce impulsive or reactive behaviors.

  • Spiritual growth and personal development: IFS recognizes the presence of a core Self within individuals and emphasizes the cultivation of self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-acceptance. It can be utilized as a tool for personal growth, self-discovery, and spiritual development.